Twitter. My boyfriend was never late for a date, but he whenever he would go to his buddies house, he would always stay a lot later than what he would originally tell me he was going to. The minute my husband got back from nine weeks in the field, I told him I had to move to a big city. She on the other hand is perfectly fine just cruising by in life. My boyfriend recently came into a lot of work and doesn't get home until late at night most days, with only an occasional day or two off. Say you need to get to work at 9:00. He says I’m beautiful and perfect and his princess. The truth is that there are many reasons why people just can’t get somewhere on time. But the benefits of doing so may very well make that journey worthwhile. Sign #1: He’s Always Broke. You can cut ties before it’s too late, before you drunk-text break up. Worse, he was always 15 to 20 minutes late for our meetings - which means if he started 20 minutes earlier - he could have made it. He is 45 yrs old and works from 7pm-12am Sundays and 10pm-3am Monday through Thursday. so he supposed to be here by twleve thirty its one! It's rude to me. I may not be the perfect girl but I will always laugh, cry and be mad by your side every single day of my life until our hair turns grey. I'm not talking 5 minutes, 10 minutes, or even 15 minutes. When we first started having sex, I didn’t really know what I liked or wanted. My boyfriend and I are in our mid-twenties and have been together for 7 years. I pay less attention to the people who matter to me. My boyfriend of 6 months has a female friend who texts him on a daily basis. Always, when you are learning how to deal with a workaholic boyfriend, lay down some ground rules. Follow. Dating almost 6 years. He does not not frequently hang out with her besides at work but the texting is non-stop and I don’t like it. Working or overtime I've now started giving him two times to pick from, and he's still late!! I am always on time, I make sure of it because I hate when people keep me waiting. I’m a writer, I work alone all day, and I can’t live on a tiny remote rural island if my husband’s work is always taking him away. It's all about compromise, girls. I'm not sure if it's just the last two years that I started to notice it, if he only recently started doing this, but he is late for EVERYTHING. And then when I ask him what happened, why is he late; he has reason. How do I deal with this? marley86. My boyfriend currently isn't working so his sleep schedule is sporadic as he's searching for a job. 0 0. I'm talking most times it's 1-2 hours. I know a half hour won't change my life, I just find it sort of disrespectful. He's a kind, loving and respectful partner, so I find it difficult to explain exactly why I feel this way. I have to work at 8:30am every morning so I need to get to bed by … My boyfriend has been working at a small company for the past 2 years. Most of the time I have called him and found him on break for more than 30 minutes with his colleagues and manager. I clicked on his name and it said his "last seen", which was on his lunch break. You assume it takes exactly 12 minutes to get to work, so you leave at 8:48. I've confronted him and he said he will change but he doesn't. He's up at 10am. The more you worry, the more doubts and questions pop up only pushing practical and logical reasoning further away. He has stopped caring about me and is always good to me when he is in front of me. There is always going to be that one thing that makes you angry and upset within a relationship. Doesn't matter when or what for. I pay less attention to myself. I gave him some time and after 2 days he came to me and explained all about work and the mental pressure he was enduring. My boyfriend is always tired and is always running late for work? 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